According to Miriam Webster, sex involves penetration of a female’s vagina by a male’s penis. Obviously, this does not apply to lesbians, which isn’t to say lesbians don’t have sex. It’s simply different to the sex straight women have. A third group of women, namely bisexual ones, enjoy both kinds of sex. Can you say one is better than the other? No. It’s like comparing apples to oranges.
Lots of times, straight women find themselves yearning for other women, even those past middle age who’ve been with men only their whole lives. Some have been married for more than 15 years and have children. They begin to torment themselves, plagued by sex-related questions, asking themselves, “Could it be that I’m actually gay after all these years?” Canadian artist Jon Lajoie famously quipped, “Doctors recommend being gay to everyone who’s not straight.” Check it on YouTube.
Anyway, they’re not gay. If you’re gay, you realize it in your teens, sometimes earlier. Some lesbians say they dreamed of other girls ever since they were kids. They had crushes on girls in the first grade even.
What women actually yearn for is gentle sex. Men’s and women’s bodies are as different as Earth is to Jupiter when it comes to sex. Men get aroused very quickly, they come, and they lose interest. Their period of sexual desire is relatively brief. Women’s bodies are different. It takes some stimulation to get women aroused. It happens more slowly. When they are aroused, the desire is very strong and long-lasting, much more powerful than men’s desire.
They can go for hours and hours. Lesbian sex normally lasts hours, while straight sex lasts max. 1 hour on average. That’s why some guys brag about being able to go on for hours – it’s rare for a man. Whether it’s true is another story. They claim it. Even if it’s true, it’s not the type of sex women want to have. Real women, not porn actresses, who are just doing their job. There’s nothing more annoying than a guy whojust rams on and on thinking he’s doing something for the woman. Sometimes, it’s even painful when the juices stop flowing and the vagina gets dry. On the other hand, a pleasant sexual experience is where the juices don’t stop flowing.
What’s my point? If you’re pondering a switch to lesbian sex, maybe you need more gentle love. Talk to your man about it. Don’t wait for your life to go by.